MSN Nicks ...

Woah. Din realise i haven't blogged for 5 days. =3


Lazy? No topic to speak about? hahaha...no prize for getting it correct. =P



A friend told me the other day that no-lifers blogs. I do not perceive it that way. Blogging is a pastime for some, blogging is a tool for ppl to pen down their thoughts, blogging is an outlet for others, blogging is an electronic diary for ppl to ... well, keep a diary, blogging is.............................




An interesting note besides blogs, is that, MSN, esp MSN nicks, can reflect a person's thoughts, feelings or watever that has happened to him/her for a particular time. Haha, think i am reading too much into stuff? Well, perhaps. perhaps not. At least I do know that some friends do gives u an idea of how he/she's feeling from his/her MSN nick.


MSN nick of a sec sch frend of mine,
"People are sayin either my tie looks nice or my shirts look nice. TMd DAMIT,why can't someone jus say I LOOOK NICE ?"

Lol, quite funny when first read that. He isn't that bad looking too. Dunno why no one praises his looks..Lol. But then when u think about it, when is the last time u praise a person for looking nice, dressing up nice, but instead of praising how nice/fashionable/impressive he or she dresses, u just comment on how matching the tie and shoes are, the shirt looks great etc. I am no expert in dress sense or fashion, but I do appreciate ppl who dresses nicely to compliment themselves. Rather sad for the person if no one praises him/her for the effort he/she makes. Hahaha...words are double-edged swords. You can hurt someone, or you can make someone's day. So, make it a point, don't only praise that tie/shirt/shoes/pants/accessory ONLY, give a good comment to the person wearing them too. Of course, must be from the bottom of ur heart lar.. (--")



Another friend of mine, she's also a sec sch frend, albeit, from another sch, coz i was from a boys sch.
"能够伤害你的人，是你深爱的人 - 伤感是爱的遗产... "

I used to worry for her a lot. After sec sch and entering jc, she was finding it difficult mixing with her classmates and, hmmz, a bit lost, unsure. Her sec sch environment was quite sheltered, simple, and she seldom encountered inter-personal problems in sec sch. Thats why, entering jc, having a very diversified classmates makes her quite lost. Gave her some advices(upon thinking back, my advices then are pretty useless, not mature enough and don't really get to the bottom of the issue), and even advice her on how to deal with the person wooing her. LOL. She got together with him eventually, and got hurt. Then in U, she got together with my bmt sergeant(not really my sergeant, just same company de), but she got hurt again, 2 yrs back?? Due to changes. I din probe too much. She shared more about her problems with my close friend. But we do went out for a dinner and talked a bit about it. Since then, i just let her heal her wounds by herself, with time.

Perhaps I shouldn't just leave her alone like that? But i know I shouldn't keep helping her also. I have to let her learn to fend for herself. And also she might be able to find someone better. Haven't contacted her since, coz we're really so out of touch that we dun have much to talk abt. But seeing her MSN nick, i felt a bit down, coz she seem to be quite down yet...or that she's still tending to her wounds? Perhaps, when i see her online, i'll just pop a msg to her bahs...




"U dun marry some1 u can live with, u marry a person who u cannot live w/o.."
From this female frend i have.

Very ironic, the other day i was asking her, "hey, when u getting married?" she told me, "huh? siao, so early, i haven't play enough yet." hahaha, ok lar...she's just 20 yrs old. And yes, she's the playful type of person, so i was asking this to disturb her(coz before this, i asked her older sis when she's marrying also =P), then she give me this reply. hahaha, her older sis din reply much, just say too early(she just got together with her current bf for less than a yr). hahahaha...

heh, Relationships, marriage, different ppl have different views on them. Though there are a lot of similarities in the viewpoints, however, i shall just let the ppl reading this think about this themselves. =P



'if today is ur last day on earth, wad do u wish 4? ur attempt to change topic has failed - if u gt no shoes, dun even tink of cryin.. wait til u c sum1 wif no legs.."

hahahahah. Very interesting nick. I wonder where she gets it from.

"if today is ur last day on earth, wad do u wish 4?"
What will YOU wish for? My wish? I dunno how to put them down in words, maybe i can express them in chinese, but not yet. haha, the time has not arrive yet. So, tell me, what do YOU wish for??

"if u gt no shoes, dun even tink of cryin.. wait til u c sum1 wif no legs.."
hahaha, omg, seriously i still do not have any inkling of where and how she got this from. Contentment?? Discontentment?? Comparing oneself with another?? But its good to ponder upon it doesn't it??



One thing i noticed, generally, guys will have their MSN nicks being famous quotes, or some sayings or just plain simply on their school/work. Whereas gals will have a whole lot variety of nicks. hahaha. Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus. I guess that book really explains everything =x.



From my temple frend : " Realisations come naturally through the practice of surrendering. - The only way to realise the illusion of "self" is to face one's "self" "

Very cheeem hor??? hahahaha. Not going to elaborate, but just to see if can trigger any thing from ppl reading it.. =P


Ok! Shall end here. Hahhaa...uber long post =x



其实你是个很坚强的人，要对自己有信心。我相信你。。。。